How to Manage the Demands of Increased Visibility

Today’s question is:

“I love to know the answer to this: As we grow in visibility, how do we handle the negative things that come with that? The pressure, the constant expectations, the increase in requests and favors asked of us. Sometimes it feels like too much.”

This episode is all about the downside of increased visibility. We talk about the pressure, the constant expectations and the increasing requests and favors being asked of you.

We dive into boundaries, self-care, and we also talk about what we see as the curve of visibility.

In this episode:

Responsibility and visibility. 1.00
Set good boundaries. 2.30
Perception plays a role. 6.00
Self-care is important. 8.45
Beware of the trolls. 10.10
I wish I could but I can’t. 11.00

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About Business Badassery

Amy’s a conversion copywriter, business coach and serial business owner who’s been reading advice columns since she was nine. With decades of business experience, she’s gotten very good at quickly reading situations and coming up with solutions – especially on the fly. You can find her at amyposner.com

Kirsty’s a launch copywriter and ex-psychotherapist, who’s smack bang in the middle of scaling her business with online courses. She’s good at making sense of human tendencies, selling things with words, and only following the work that feels good. You can find her at kirstyfanton.com

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I already push myself hard enough so I'm not interested in working with coaches that are going to "crack the whip" and "kick my arse".

Kirsty and Amy both have a gently challenging coaching style. I always left sessions feeling validated, smart and capable but with a clear idea of how to make things even betterer.”

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Creative Copywriter

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Amy is direct AND caring all at the same time. It makes it easier for me to get to the point cause I know you'll get to the point when you ask about the things you need more info on.

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Also, they’re both so genuine, warm, smart and hilarious. Those 'good' traits just compound when you put the two of them together, ya know?”

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Conversion Copywriter

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And my sweet, sweet Kirsty. Using all of her best therapy tricks to keep us moving forward. And making us feel loved :)

Together? Stop. So good. I have never felt so supported.

I think the value in coaching is having someone hold a bigger vision for you than you can see yourself. So having TWO of you hold that for me was extremely motivating.”

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Email Copywriter